# Oliver Cowlishaw

> Helping self-aware men become grounded, bold and genuine in their relationships with women

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## Posts
- [I dated a princess](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-dated-a-princess): ... a lesson in masculine discernment
- [Get angry](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/get-angry): ... or you will suffer for it
- [My mother wound](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/my-mother-wound): ... something you might see in yourself
- [I said no to her yesterday](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-said-no-to-her-yesterday): ... and it wasn't what I expected
- [Stop rescuing her](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/stop-rescuing-her): ... and burning yourself out in the process
- [Nice guys attract chaotic women](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/nice-guys-attract-chaotic-women): ... a match made in hell
- ["I'll never have that relationship" ](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-ll-never-have-that-relationship): He thought a loving relationship was off the table for him.
- [Why you collapse when she cries](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/why-you-collapse-when-she-cries): ... your system learned this early on
- [The "nice guy" is angry](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/the-nice-guy-is-angry): .. the nicest man in the room is the angriest
- [How many times did you apologise today?](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/how-many-times-did-you-apologise-today): ... be honest
- [This stopped her screaming.](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/new-post-652a): ... inner peace needs hard boundaries
- [Be a burden](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/be-a-burden): you deserve to be heard
- [This is killing your dating life](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/this-is-killing-your-dating-life): ... stop permission-seeking
- [3 things I look for in women](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/3-things-i-look-for-in-women): ... and you should, too
- [Why rejection hits YOU harder than most men](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/why-rejection-hits-you-harder-than-most-men): ... you're not a simp or a beta
- [Still a virgin at 36](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/still-a-virgin-at-36): how Stan stopped being invisible to women
- [This heals "approval addiction"](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/this-heals-approval-addiction): make this shift and watch things change.
- [This sentence changed my life](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/this-sentence-changed-my-life): ... and it could change yours
- [You don't need to be "fixed"](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/you-don-t-need-to-be-fixed): ... you can have what you want already
- [The only reason women don't choose you](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/the-only-reason-women-don-t-choose-you): ... you won't like it
- [Do you avoid confrontation?](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/do-you-avoid-confrontation): this wrecks your self-respect
- [You keep abandoning yourself](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/you-keep-abandoning-yourself): the real reason your relationships never work out
- [This makes you easy to manipulate](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/this-makes-you-easy-to-manipulate): STOP doing it
- [The only real way out is through](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/the-only-real-way-out-is-through): salsa dancing as a British man?
- [The mother wound destroying your relationships ](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/the-mother-wound-destroying-your-relationships): ... feel it to heal it
- [The Real Reason She Ghosted You](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/the-real-reason-she-ghosted-you): The Three Levels Of Communication
- [I didn't need a woman. I needed this.](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-didn-t-need-a-woman-i-needed-this): ... the missing link all along
- [Show me this and I'll tell you who you are](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/show-me-this-and-i-ll-tell-you-who-you-are): ... you can't avoid it
- [6 uncomfortable truths that killed my inner nice guy](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/6-uncomfortable-truths-that-killed-my-inner-nice-guy): ... let honesty kick your ass and set you free
- [Why you collapse when you like her](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/why-you-collapse-when-you-like-her): .. the real reason (and how to stop)
- [Stop putting women on a pedestal](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/stop-putting-women-on-a-pedestal): ... this has to stop
- [“I feel like a loser most of the time.”](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-feel-like-a-loser-most-of-the-time): the core wound of modern men
- [Passivity is slowly killing you](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/passivity-is-slowly-killing-you): "life is more fun when you get off the fence"
- [One extra day (quick update)](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/one-extra-day-quick-update): Will you step into the circle?
- [You don't need confidence ... you need to heal shame](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/you-don-t-need-confidence-you-need-to-heal-shame): the root cause you didn't know about
- [All thought, no action?](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/all-thought-no-action): this trap catches men all the time
- [This made me impotent in life](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/this-made-me-impotent-in-life): ... is it doing the same for you?
- [I didn't need her. I needed this.](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-didn-t-need-her-i-needed-this): .. the missing link for 95% of men
- [You were never meant to "fit in"](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/you-were-never-meant-to-fit-in): ... it's spiritual suicide
- [Emotionally immature women](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/emotionally-immature-women): ... don't ignore these
- ["I don't want to talk about it."](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/i-don-t-want-to-talk-about-it): ... a lesson in quietly ending people-pleasing
- [When emotional abuse from women is quiet](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/when-emotional-abuse-from-women-is-quiet): ... you slowly lose your masculine confidence
- [She cheated. I told her the truth.](https://www.olivercowlishaw.com/p/she-cheated-i-told-her-the-truth): don't be a YES MAN