Alright, mate.
If you’re a good dude, but women keep telling you:
“You’re amazing. You’re going to make some woman very happy one day…”
… but they never choose you themselves, there’s a real reason behind it.
And it’s not what the manosphere tells you.
It’s not your looks.
It’s not your status.
It’s not your bank account.
The real reason is way deeper.
Let me tell you about Richard, a former client of mine.
Richard was 37.
Good-looking guy. Successful career. Homeowner.
Yet… he’d never had a girlfriend. Never kissed a woman.
He spent years doing everything “right”
He was hitting the gym, dressing well, and climbing the career ladder but women only ever saw him as a “friend.”
The truth is .. underneath all that effort, Richard was carrying invisible beliefs:
That his sexuality was wrong.
That his desire was shameful.
That women didn’t want men like him.
Growing up in a wounded (fatherless) household with a controlling overbearing mother..
He’d been taught that “men are bad,” and that to be loved, he had to be harmless.
Not masculine. Not flirtatious.
Harmless.
No one ever told him that trying to hide your masculinity, trying to be the “safe guy”, is exactly what makes women feel no attraction.
When we uncovered this together, it changed everything.
Richard went from being invisible…to being wanted.
(Three women at a singles event even voted to see him again.)
He realized: Your sexuality is not something to hide. It’s a gift.
When you stop hiding your real self from women…sexuality included.
Women stop hiding from you.
If you’re tired of being the “great guy” who never gets chosen and you’re ready to fix this at the root click here to find out how we can work together.
You deserve love, intimacy, and connection, without pretending to be someone you’re not.
Stay courageous,
Oliver